身為女人，我相信婚姻因為有愛而完美。我有許多朋友都嫁了好老公，大多數的人都是在年輕時候默默無聞，隨著個人的努力，先生事業成功，大家羨慕他們，但是先生越成功，妻子卻越困惑。
一位朋友說：「我在電視上看到我先生的機會比在家還多…」
一位朋友說：「我先生昨晚花了一個晚上慶祝他老闆太太的生日，但他卻沒時間陪我過生日…」
一位朋友說：「我家就像先生的旅館，因為他經常都在國外…」
一位朋友說：「我孩子還小，但是爸爸好像陌生人…」
一位朋友說：「我先生很會賺錢，但錢卻捐了出去…」
一位朋友說：「我先生只要賺了錢，就開更多家公司，就更少能夠回家…」
一位朋友說：「我先生每天回家都醉醺醺…」
一位朋友說：「我先生不會喝醉回家，但他整顆心都在工作上…」
一位朋友說：「我先生回家都已經精疲力盡，連說話的力氣都沒了…」
一位朋友說：「多盼望我可以和先生散散步，還是像我們年輕的時候一起做些事，但他現在既沒時間也沒心情…」
一位朋友說：「我不在乎我先生有什麼頭銜，因為我不想和馬嫂一樣，先生變成大家的…」
這些太太談到先生沒完沒了，先生的成功是她們的驕傲，但先生的忙碌也讓她們悵然若失，當婚姻中談心聊天成為奢侈，妻子開始擔心二人漸行漸遠，先生卻忙得無暇思考，似乎也無須思考，因為工作上的成就感早已佔據整個心頭。女人的心海底針，男人懂嗎?
中興大學募款晚會表演
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Women’s Thoughts
As a woman, I always believe that love makes a marriage perfect. I have many friends who are married to wonderful men. Most of them started humbly as ordinary couples when they were young, but the husbands continued to rise on the social ladder and the husbands become celebrities. People revere them because of the fame and wealth they get. However, the more successful they become, the more doubtful the wives are about marriage.
One friend said: ‘I see my husband more often on TV than at home.’
One friend said: ‘My husband had no time to spend on my birthday, but he spent last night celebrating his boss’ wife’s birthday.’
One friend said: ‘My home is like a hotel for my husband. He travels a lot because he has so many companies abroad.’
One friend said: ‘My children are still young, but they barely see their father.’
One friend said: ‘My husband works like a dog and he has made so much money, but he donates most of it.’
One friend said: ‘The more money my husband makes, the more companies he wants to open and the less time we can spend together.
One friend said: ‘My husband comes home every night drunk.’
One friend said: ‘My husband doesn’t get drunk, but his mind is completely occupied with work when he comes back. There is no room for me.’
One friend said: ‘My husband told me to leave him alone when he got back because he was exhausted after work.’
One friend said: ‘How much I wish I could take a walk with my husband or do something together just like what we did when we were young, but he has no time or mood to do it anymore.’
One friend said: ‘I don’t care what title my husband gets because I don’t want to be like Madam Ma. She lost her husband to all the Taiwanese people.
The list goes on and on. What the wives said just sounded like they were too hard to please or they were too greedy. They already have so many things most people don’t have, but they still complain.
It is a pity that wonderful couples become strangers to each other. A marriage suffers when two people are living like two parallel lines heading for different directions.
There are so many love stories telling people how precious love is in life. Many couples started a family with sincere love for each other, but time flies by, the love disappears and the commitment fails. When the marriage loses love, can it still be sweet? The wives worry about the relations, but the husbands have no time to think about it. Actually they don’t need to think because they are happy with what they have achieved. Women are difficult to understand, anyway.
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