報載一個十來歲的孩子，因為細故，殺人殺紅了眼。好端端的ㄧ個青少年為什麼會變成殺人不眨眼的惡魔？我們不要只怪青少年，我們應該先問問爸爸媽媽怎麼了？
當孩子成長的過程中，爸爸媽媽在哪裡？當孩子苦悶不安，爸爸媽媽在哪裡？當孩子需要幫助，爸爸媽媽在哪裡？
多少孩子是爹不疼娘不愛，有家卻不想回家，因為家裡沒有爸媽。即便有，也如同沒有，甚至，比沒有更糟糕！
青少年問題從家庭問題變成社會問題，從別人的家務事變成人人自危的事。過去我們說「養不教，父之過」，現在父親的責任變成社會的責任，爸爸媽媽生了孩子卻丟下不管了，或者說管不了。即便是動物都知道要照顧牠的下ㄧ代，我們的爸爸媽媽在哪裡？爸爸媽媽該做的事怎麼變成別人的事？當今法律姑息壞人又無法保障好人，這個問題令人憂心。
蘇州小橋
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Where are the parents?
The front page of the newspaper was covered with scary news about a teenager slaughtered his peers without any reason. Everyone blamed the boy, but was it his entire fault? Should his parents take responsibility as well?
I always wonder nowadays where the parents are when the children are growing up? Where are the parents when the children need someone to talk to? Where are the parents when the children need help?
How many children never get love from their parents? They have a home but they don’t want to go home because the parents are always missing. Even if the parents are home, it is like they are not there, or it is even worse to have parents at home.
The adolescents’ problems become a burden to society and threats to innocent citizens. In the past, disciplining children was the parents’ job, but now there are many parents who discard their children or just give up on them. Even animals know how to take care of their youngsters, what happens to humans? When the parents leave their responsibilities to society, and the law cannot really protect good people, the adolescents’ crime becomes a real problem.
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